Bug\u00fcn 18 milyon yavrumuz karne ald\u0131.
Kimisi takdir ald\u0131, sevindi.
Kimisi zay\u0131f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fc.
Peki, e\u011fri oturup do\u011fru konu\u015fal\u0131m\u2026
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n karnesi tamam da, anne baba olarak bizim karnemiz ne durumda?
Ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131kla m\u00fccadelede s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131 ge\u00e7tik mi? Yoksa s\u0131n\u0131fta m\u0131 kald\u0131k?
Gelin bu tatilde kimseyi su\u00e7lamadan aynay\u0131 kendimize tutal\u0131m.
Bakal\u0131m notlar\u0131m\u0131z nas\u0131l?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ders 1: \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z Zombiye mi D\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rakamlarla konu\u015fal\u0131m.
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z maalesef g\u00fcnde 3-5 saat o telefonun ba\u015f\u0131nda eriyip gidiyor.
\u0130\u015fin uzmanlar\u0131 buna “Beyin \u00c7\u00fcr\u00fcmesi” diyorlar.
Hi\u00e7 de haks\u0131z de\u011filler.
Bak\u0131yorsunuz \u00e7ocu\u011fa; beden ortada ama kafa gitmi\u015f.
Sesleniyorsun duymuyor.
Elinden telefonu al\u0131nca sudan \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f bal\u0131\u011fa d\u00f6n\u00fcyor.
Huzursuz oluyor, kriz ge\u00e7iriyor.
E\u011fer sizin evde de durum buysa\u2026
\u0130lk ders notumuz eskimeyen tabirle “k\u0131r\u0131k” demektir.
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu i\u015fin \u015fakas\u0131 yok, gelece\u011fimiz elden gidiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ders 2: \u0130\u011fneyi Kendimize Bat\u0131ral\u0131m<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kitaplar s\u00fcsl\u00fc kelimelerle anlat\u0131yor ama biz herkesin anlayaca\u011f\u0131 dille konu\u015fal\u0131m:
Armut dibine d\u00fc\u015fer.
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z lafa bakmaz, icraatlar\u0131m\u0131za bakar.
Ak\u015fam sofras\u0131nda baba elinden telefonu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrm\u00fcyorsa\u2026
Anne dizi izlerken, sosyal medyada vakit ge\u00e7irirken \u00e7ocu\u011fa “O\u011flum git ders
\u00e7al\u0131\u015f” diyorsa\u2026
O \u00e7ocuk sizi dinlemez.
Evde kural varsa, herkes i\u00e7in var.
\u00d6nce biz o telefonu elimizden b\u0131rakaca\u011f\u0131z ki \u00e7ocu\u011fa s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz ge\u00e7sin.
Yoksa evde sadece kavga ve karga\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ders 3: “Ak\u015fam 9” Kural\u0131<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ye\u015filay Genel Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Do\u00e7. Dr. Mehmet Din\u00e7\u2019in ebeveynlere \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7ok net:
“Saat Dokuz, Ekranda Yokuz.”
Ne demek bu?
Ak\u015fam 9 ile 9 bu\u00e7uk aras\u0131, o telefonlar\u0131, ekranlar\u0131 bir kapat\u0131n karde\u015fim.
Yar\u0131m saat ya\u2026
Sadece yar\u0131m saat.
\u00c7ay\u0131 demleyin, \u00e7ekirde\u011fi koyun, sohbet edin.
Sadece “yapma, etme” demekle olmaz.
\u00c7ocu\u011fun elinden telefonu al\u0131yorsan, yerine bir \u015fey koyacaks\u0131n.
Kitap olur, oyun olur, d\u0131\u015far\u0131da top oynamak olur.
Bo\u015fluk b\u0131rak\u0131rsan, o bo\u015flu\u011fu yine telefon doldurur.
Unutmay\u0131n; hayat bo\u015fluk kabul etmez!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ders 4: Yaln\u0131z De\u011filsiniz<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu illeti tek ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za yenemeyebilirsiniz.
Zor bir i\u015f.
Ama \u00e7aresiz de\u011filsiniz.
Bizim gibi dernekler var, devletimizin kurumlar\u0131 var.
Valili\u011fimiz, yerel y\u00f6netimlerimiz, sivil toplum kurulu\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z bu konuda gece
g\u00fcnd\u00fcz \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor.
Kocaeli’de bizler sahaday\u0131z.
Bu i\u015f “Benim \u00e7ocu\u011fuma bir \u015fey olmaz” diyerek \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmez.
El ele verece\u011fiz.
\u00d6n\u00fcm\u00fczde 15 G\u00fcnl\u00fck F\u0131rsat Var
Bug\u00fcn tatil ba\u015flad\u0131.
Bunu bir “telafi s\u0131nav\u0131” gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.
Zorland\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131?
\u0130\u015fin i\u00e7inden \u00e7\u0131kam\u0131yor musunuz?
YEDAM 115 hatt\u0131 var.
Aray\u0131n, derdinizi anlat\u0131n, \u00fccretsiz destek al\u0131n.
Bu ak\u015fam eve gidince o ekranlar\u0131 bir kapat\u0131n.
\u00c7ocu\u011fun karnesindeki matematik notuna, T\u00fcrk\u00e7e notuna de\u011fil\u2026
G\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7indeki o p\u0131r\u0131lt\u0131ya bak\u0131n.
Sizin as\u0131l karneniz, o \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n zehirlenmeden, p\u0131r\u0131l p\u0131r\u0131l b\u00fcy\u00fcmesidir.
Hadi, bu tatilde notumuzu d\u00fczeltelim.
Kal\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131cakla\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00d6mer KARATA\u015e
Kocaeli Ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131kla M\u00fccadele ve Rehabilitasyon Derne\u011fi YK Ba\u015fkan\u0131<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Bug\u00fcn 18 milyon yavrumuz karne ald\u0131.Kimisi takdir ald\u0131, sevindi.Kimisi zay\u0131f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fc.Peki, e\u011fri oturup do\u011fru konu\u015fal\u0131m\u2026\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n karnesi tamam da, anne baba olarak bizim karnemiz ne durumda?Ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131kla m\u00fccadelede s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131 ge\u00e7tik mi? Yoksa s\u0131n\u0131fta m\u0131 kald\u0131k?Gelin bu tatilde kimseyi su\u00e7lamadan aynay\u0131 kendimize tutal\u0131m.Bakal\u0131m notlar\u0131m\u0131z nas\u0131l? Ders 1: \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z Zombiye mi D\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc? Rakamlarla konu\u015fal\u0131m.\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z maalesef g\u00fcnde 3-5 saat<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":540,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[25],"class_list":["post-539","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ailenin_onemi","tag-ailenin-onemi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.ailesevgisi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/539","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.ailesevgisi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.ailesevgisi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ailesevgisi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ailesevgisi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=539"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.ailesevgisi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/539\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":541,"href":"http:\/\/www.ailesevgisi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/539\/revisions\/541"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ailesevgisi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/540"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.ailesevgisi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=539"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ailesevgisi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=539"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ailesevgisi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=539"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}